BRINGING A NEW DOG HOME
THE RIGHT WAY

Dogs seem to know everything; you can see the deepness of their minds in their eyes. They watch. They listen. They learn fast. And we can communicate beautifully with them. But a dog cannot tell us what he has been through before we met.

We must be more gentle, more watchful, and more sensitive than ever before when we being a new dog home. It is a fascinating adventure. Have a name or two ready. Get down low on his level and speak gently to him. Stroke him. Look him in the eye and tell him you want to offer him a home. Offer him a treat. We must remember that food has profound value in the mind of a dog. It is not trite: it is true, and has been going on for thousands of years. Food helps the dog bond with you. So does love, talk, play and just sitting together in the evening to watch the sun go down.

You are in charge. You are alpha dog, and this is the way it has to be. If there is another dog at home already, or even several other dogs, don’t worry.

Bring the new dog home in your arms, either literally or figuratively. You protect the new dog as your own in the process of introducing him to the others. Say his name and keep your arm around him constantly. This indicates your love and respect for this animal to the others.

Keep in mind that this “new” dog has experiences behind him and we know not what, so our introduction process must be as comfortable and gentle as possible. Two people being present is helpful. No growling permitted. The moment a growl or bark or sign of anger is heard, you say “No,” firmly. Resume the gentleness of the introduction. Watch carefully for the first few days to make sure no one is becoming the king or the boss. This is not workable or appropriate in a multi-dog home. The only boss is you.

Hug the dogs together. Give them treats together. Each by name. One by one. Each one needs to know how special he is. No snatching another’s treat or growling should be allowed. Say “No” to this immediately.

Come to sit down by the new dog frequently. He needs this show of caring: it makes him secure with you and in his new home. Show him around, slowly. Let him sniff it all out. Let him look high and low and under and roundaout. Remember, he has never seen all this before and dogs instinctively come to know every centimeter of their environment.

Do not scold. It is too soon. Just understand and offer protection and love. The meal should be in his own dish. No arguing over another dish. Keep meal times peaceful. Play afterward. The dogs feel good after a meal. Full tummies and psychological security go together. This is a good time to walk and play gently, scratch his tummy and tell him you know it feels good. Throw a rag in the air. Play tag.

Dogs are incredibly sensitive to what we are going and thinking and feeling. Have you ever noticed how a dog will leave the room if you are in a horrible mood? Allow this dog to KNOW you love him. They love us so much. Respect him and he respects you. Give, give and you will reap mountains of joy forever in return.